The Emotional Roller Coaster:
Buying a new home can be all sorts of things and it more than likely will be. Happiness. Sadness. Anger. Anxiety. Remorse. These can and more than likely WILL be emotions we go through on this journey. There is so much at play here that understanding this process is 100% necessary to move forward effectively. There will be times when we will be happy. (We found the home) There will times when we could be sad. (The home we just fell in love with already sold just after we decided it was ‘the one’) Anger (Refer to ‘Sadness’ J) Remorse (you will more than likely question every single step of this process wondering if you’re making the right decision or if this is really something you should be doing right now) Learning that these emotions are ok and learning how to handle them will further help prepare you for them as we near them. I’ve personally gone through these with a number of clients. As long as we UNDERSTAND what it is that we want and we remain in this process together, with trust, we will prevail. Once you’ve been approved and we’ve located the home you wish to make your own we then begin the offer process. Once we’ve submitted an offer, a couple of things are possible.
1. Your offer is accepted and we dive into the next steps of the process.
2. Our offer is not accepted but a counter offer is given. We then get to make a decision based on your wants and need on how to proceed.
3. The offer is placed when there are multiple offers already available to the seller. This places us in what we call a ‘bidding war’ with multiple agents and or families.
There are other scenarios based on what type of home we are looking at but the above listed are the most common. Given that we currently sit in what’s called a “seller’s market” the local inventory is not on the shelf for very long and if so we are more likely to experience a multiple offer situation. Having someone available that you trust and contains a LARGE knowledge of the Real Estate process is crucial as to protect your best interest!